
the ginormous otter in fergus falls of otter tail county, mn
mom, grandpa, ilse the dog and i hit the road this weekend for fergus falls, mn. grandma and grandpa grew up about 8 miles outside fergus, and two of grandpas' sisters still live there. he hasn't seen them in a while, mom didn't have school (she's a teacher) due to presidents day, and Husby worked the whole weekend, so up we went!
it was a good visit. we went to the nursing home to visit with great-aunt L - who used to be a dead ringer for the
church lady of saturday night live - and her husband. great-aunt L has some dementia and her husband has parkinsons disease, so conversation was a little lagging. but it was a nice visit nonetheless, and i know it was a well-timed one.
we stayed with great-aunt V. she is one wild 75 year old! she just retired from her job as a sexuality nurse - she actually was also a professor who taught other sex nurses. =) she actually moved back to fergus from detroit to take care of her sister (great-aunt L). every piece - pottery, paintings, cookware - in her home belonged to some relative and has a story. her daughter married a man from algeria, converted to muslim and moved to algiers. great-aunt V just got back from her 3rd visit to them. she's a wonderful, savvy lady.
it was grandpa's first trip to fergus without grandma, so naturally it was a toughie. we made burial arrangements for grandma, which was hard. both sets of grandma & grandpas' grandparents and parents, as well as other family members (including their 2 babies and adult son) are buried at swan lake cemetary. they grew up at swan lake church, which is in the absolute middle of the country - you can't even see a farmhouse from the church! when we bury grandma in the spring, it will be beautiful.
besides sad things, we had a great time. sharing the backseat of mom's car with the dog, eating out more times in 2 days than i have in 2 months, using the internet of my new pink blackberry from the car, staying up til 1am with my great-aunt and mom, sharing a futon bed with mom... all in all, it was a good trip.
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